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This Post contains content that may be offensive to some, as it deals with a very controversial topic, please use discretion.
A Brave New Sexual World
By: Blue Rose
By: Blue Rose
"And that," put in the Director sententiously, "that is the secret of happiness and virtue-liking what you've got to do. All conditioning aims at that: making people like their inescapable social destiny."
- Aldous Huxley, Brave New World, Ch. 1
- Aldous Huxley, Brave New World, Ch. 1
A foolish man would argue that, in recent times, there hasn't been a focus on more "in-depth" sexual education. And, according to information from the Guttmacher institute, pregnancies among teens, after a decline in the 90's, has slowly been on a rise that will reach a plateau in the United States in the next couple of years.
So why? Why is comprehensive sex education not acting to decline the rate of teen pregnancies among Americans?
When I was 14, our science teacher decided to being class one day with an experiment. We walked outside, and found, on the ground, 2 liter bottles and a few chemicals. Without getting into the technical information about the idea, the idea was that, by virtue of mixing a few chemicals together, we would create hydrogen in the 2 liter bottle.
Well we began to pour the chemicals in the bottles until they slowly filled with a murky, greyish cloud. When we had all finished, our teacher told us to line up our bottles facing an open field, and did something that surprised the teen hormones out of me.
She crouched down to the first bottle, which was hers, unscrewed the cap, and held a lighter up to the opening. What happened subsequently was the hydrogen caught flame, and blasted the projectile two-liter bottle like a missile.*
Now, I would like to say, after watching the rest of the bottles soar off, that I used this information a she intended; to learn about how volatile chemicals are, and use this in my science class to better understand concepts....but I was a 14-year-old boy, and I don't think I need to explain what I did with this information, but let's just say there are many Barbie dolls who have something VERY in-common with the Challenger crew.**
It was information much too powerful for me to NOT abuse as an adolescent. And it's for this very same reason kids can't learn the graphic, detailed level of sex we expose them to, without exposing themselves to danger.
Now, I don't think I need to re-express how I know what you're thinking: Rose, Rose, Rose, today's youth are different. They're responsible, older, and more mature. Plus, it's not like we're SHOWING them how to have sex, that would be crazy!
Well meet Planned Parenthood!
In their book "It's Perfectly Normal", Planned Parenthood includes graphic cartoons of teens having sex. Given the level of snickering me and my fellow classmates did at our much, much, MUCH more scaled down sex. ed. pamphlet, I can only imagine what today's teen do with this piece of literature, but luckily, I don't have to:
because they market it to ten-year-olds.
That's right, "It's Perfectly Normal" isn't actually for teens, Planned Parenthood gives it out as part of their curriculum for pre-teens, even 10-year-olds, giving them a detailed image of how to have sex with each other.
"Concerned Citizens of South Texas" has dedicated several studies to Planned Parenthood's methods in their area, and some of the information is staggering.
Just in case there are any of you who don't think 10 is too young to be seeing graphic pictures of sex, Planned Parenthood went ahead and starting their program in kindergarten.
The "Outercourse" program by Planned Parenthood begins as early as kindergarten (4 and 5-year-olds), and details non-vaginal sex like anal, oral, and even cyber sexual activities as viable means to prevent pregnancy.
Planned Parenthood's promotion of "Technical Virginity" starts a slippery slope for teens who aren't mature enough to take so much information about sex, and not abuse it. It even promotes "Phone Sex" as a great way to help teens from not going "all the way". Not only is this condoned perversion, but it is a criminal offense in many cases. Sending inappropriate pictures, or "sexting" is actually a criminal offense when either of the two parties sending media is a minor, as it is distribution of child pornography.
Planned Parenthood, and programs of the like, were started under the belief that comprehensive sex education would be more effective at preventing teen pregnancy. Yet, as the years role on, more and more teens are becoming pregnant.
So what, is there no hope? Are we all doomed to be pregnant, disease ridden teens?
Well, in her article "Proof That Abstinence Education Does Work" Jane Olson details how abstinence education in the 2000s actually helped teens both prevent pregnancy, and excell academically.
To be fair, Planned Parenthood does address abstinence education in an article called "What Are Abstinence-Only Programs and Why Don't They Work?" and their answer to why these programs don't work was really good.....oh, wait, they didn't actually list one.
Whether you believe in abstinence or not, its education is clearly more effective. Teens are going to have sex, it will happen, but if we don't focus, especially at a young age, on teaching kids the benefits of abstinence, they're going to have more and more sex, until they slip-up, and make a devistating decision.
Teens are not responsible enough to handle birth control correctly, in most cases. This is why, despite more effective contraception, more readily available contraception, and even easier to use contraception, teens are being impregnated at a higher and higher rate.
Reminding you to always find your voice,
- Blue Rose
P.S. before you flood the comment section with what I can only predict will be either "your mom" jokes, or comments about rumors of my own sexual behavior, this isn't about either of those things. It's about sweeping reform in the world of sexual education, not any one person's history or past.
*not so much like a missile, as actually a hydrogen missile.
** too soon?
Abstinence is proven time and time again to not work. Humans will have sex, regardless if abstinence is taught in schools. Sex is part of human nature; just like eating for energy or sleeping for recuperation. Sex is a natural urge, and an abstinence only program is proven to have little success in curbing sex among teenagers. It would be impossible to prevent people from having sex, so the logical decision would be to promote birth control rather than abstinence only ways to approach the issue.
ReplyDeleteUm...pregnancy rates are going down. Also, the link you posted about abstinence-only programs contains a link to an assessment of their ineffectiveness. The link to the article "Proof that Abstinence Education Does Work" only vaguely references polls, most of which appear to have been taken incorrectly, with no links or info on how the polls were taken. I would hardly say that abstinence-only is "clearly more effective" than plan B programs. Here is a link that explicitly states the opposite.
ReplyDeletehttp://www.lwvwa.org/pdfs/issues/SexEd-AbstinenceOnly_vs_Science.pdf
If you'll notice, the very FIRST link i posted is a 20 page study of pregnancy rates INCREASING, with literally a couple hundred words written on just how the polls were taken.
ReplyDeleteAlso, I don't know why you think the article I posted about Abstinence working is discussing its ineffectiveness, as it's opening line is, and I quote "Research clearly shows that abstinence does work"
And lastly, if you chose to read the entire article, you'll notice I agreed on the point that teens will have sex no matter what, but my argument is that we focus on the benefits of abstinence more, so that that rate goes down.
When we expect little from our kids, we get less.
ReplyDeleteWhen we expect the best from our kids, we get more.
Yeah, it is true, teens will have sex.
It is also true that teens will have less sex if they are held to a standard of self control and given encouragement, resources and tools to hold themselves to a higher standard.
Conversely, it is true that kids will have MORE sex at an earlier age if they are bombarded with propaganda glamorizing sex, especially using kid-friendly media, cartoons, and animations as seen on Planned Parenthood's Teen Talk web-site and It's Perfectly Normal.
What will happen when kids have more sex at an earlier age? Many will end up pregnant as a direct result of the sex they had at the intentional encouragement of Planned Parenthood.
Why? Why would Planned Parenthood promote sex to little kids? There is just one answer: MONEY
Planned Parenthood DOES NOT MAKE MONEY when kids delay sexual activity or commit to abstinence.
"Foreplay 411: Everything You Wanted to Know About Not Doing It", by Planned Parenthood, clearly shows their agenda to encourage more and more kids to have sex.
Read the whole "information" article by Planned Parenthood and see for yourself.
How would you feel about your kids or grandkids getting a hold of this article?
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/teen-talk/safer-sex-std/safer-sex/foreplay-411-everything-ever-wanted-know-about-not-doing-it-25372.htm
If a neighbor gave this information to your kids or grandkid, you would consider them a sexual predator, wouldn't you?
Thanks, Blue Rose. It's unbelievable that Planned Parenthood goes after kids in elementary schools and even pre-schools with this junk.
ReplyDeleteHow do we protect our children from Planned Parenthood especially when they are apparently connected with the school system, clubs and community groups?
I was referring to the link after that, which you claimed didn't give a reason that abstinence-only programs weren't effective. As for the pregnancy rates, the increase was a slight hitch in the double-digit decline in the decade before. I think we should teach the benefits of abstinence as well, but if teens are going to have sex anyway, why not teach the benefits of using contraceptives as well?
ReplyDeleteI'm pretty sure Planned Parenthood can't show anything to a child without parental consent, and I'm pretty sure they don't actually encourage sex among teens. As Abstinence-only vs. Plan B and contraceptives, I would support whichever plan reduced the rates more, there just doesn't seem to be any definitive evidence on which is more effective. What's really suspicious is PP's rediculous profits.
ReplyDeletehttp://www.lifesitenews.com/ldn/2007/jun/07060811.html
No parental consent is required for access to graphics, explicit instructions on sexual activity and animations on Planned Parenthoods teen web-site called Teen Talk.
ReplyDeleteTeen Talk graphically describes anal sex, oral sex, and much, much more. Check it out for yourself. Read the article "Foreplay 411: Everything You Need to Know About Not Doing It" to see for yourself how Planned Parenthood promotes sex to teens, encouraging body rubbing as safe sex, birth control, sexual fulfillment....but in case things go too far (after you are tempted to the brink), be prepared with products Planned Parenthood can sell you without your parent's consent.
Foreplay 411: article
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/teen-talk/safer-sex-std/safer-sex/foreplay-411-everything-ever-wanted-know-about-not-doing-it-25372.htm
Teen Tuesday's (with after school hours) -
No Parental Consent Required (scroll down)
http://www.ppstx.org/PPS/Home
And, don't get me started on the ridiculous profits they rake in off of kids. It's sickening.
Planned Parenthood, it's not what you think.
The overall profits of Planned Parenthoood are suspicous indeed. When you look further into how they earn those profits, it is even more alarming.
ReplyDeletePlanned Parenthood has outragous mark-ups on the birth control products they sell to teens.
According to Jim Sedlak, “based on current data, Planned Parenthood pays $4.25 for Plan B, The Morning after Pill, and about $2.15 for a month’s supply of birth control.”
Planned Parenthood's website says this about the cost of Plan B.......Plan B may cost anywhere from $10 to $70. One packet of birth control pills that can be used as emergency contraception may cost from $20 to $50. If you are not 17 and need a prescription, the health center visit may cost $250
WOW! Planned Parenthood pays approximately $4.25 for Plan B and charges between $10 and $70 to teens. If Planned Parenthood tells a teen to take an entire package of birth control pills to use an alternative to the morning after pill, they pay approximately $2.15 for the package of pills and charge the teen between $20 and $50. Now, that's big profits for a "non-profit."
Oh, and don't forget to include the fees Planned Parenthood charges for an exam if you are under 17" and need a prescription (without parental consent)...that could cost the teen another $250.
Planned Parenthood profits off American teens are more than ALARMING, they are OUTRAGOUS and DISGRACEFUL!!!!
And you thought Planned Parenthood was a friendly, neighborhood non-profit. Planned Parenthood is not what you think.
Planned Parenthood is ALL ABOUT MONEY!
Wow Blue! Interesting reading. I do not know how many people who are responding have actually been to a Planned Parenthood office or have spoken to the employees there but I have. Statistics and dollar amounts can be so misleading if you are not there in the thick of things. But, I do want to commend you on your research.
ReplyDeleteWhat I really wish is that there were no need for planned parenthood. I wish parents would be parents and teach their children. I wish the churches that complain about their existence would provide "appropriate" sexual education and counseling to the young people of today; not the 1950's. There is a huge hole out there not being filled by the very people who are criticizing those who are trying to fill it. Being familiar with PP, I am not a huge fan. Not because of what they do but because they do it poorly; in my professional opinion. But at least they are trying and not denying. The truth is that most teenagers are going to have sex....period. They need guidance and wise counsel; NOT condemnation. Of course we would like them to abstain; good luck with that.
Mother Theresa wrote a long poem about individuals who try to do good. I will not write it all out here but the jist is that no matter how good you try to be or what you do to try to help, someone will try to make it appear evil. Her advice was....do good anyway.
So....until you are willing to light a candle instead of curse the darkness, please reconsider your judgements.